Well, this is part of your own style, no?
Some artists have alot of high end and make it work, others like the snare more on the quiet side.
Just work towards 6db headroom at all times. I usually start with the kick peaking around -12 and then work everything around that.
But there are alot of other threads on here on how to actually to a mixdown.
So just experiment with everything. Maybe take one tune you like (and a bit similar to your own) as a reference and screw around with the volumes