I still think there's still a good deal of members with legitimate posts, questions, etc.
However, I've also noticed a trend with new/newish members who sign up, post a question (that has been answered millions of times over) and then they disappear like Casper. That said, I think it's a bit of a bi-product of having a forum like this–those interested in production who are looking for a quick answer (oxymoron) flock here from a search engine and once they see there's a good amount of people who know what they're talking about, they dive right in without a second thought to forum etiquette or utilizing the forum search engine. In other words, it's a bit of a double edged sword in that it's great the people come here to seek answers to their questions because they feel dnbforum is a reputable source, but at the same time it's a pain in the dick when it's the same rehashed question(s) or questions that are so general you just want to virtual punch the poster.
Sidenote: I'm terribly sorry to hear about your mum Fletch. I've had many people close to me fall victim to cancer in one form or another, most recently the mother of my Goddaughter passed after a two year battle with breast cancer last week...she was only 31 years old. Encouragement is the best medicine. Will definitely keep your fam in my thoughts.
Cheers.