So i get to have my daughter once a week which isnt ideal but its something. She lives with her mother and thats all good. I had to put up with some stupid shit over the years but this time its gone too far. We broke up before my daughter was 2yrs old and shes 8 now and ill be honest its been nothing but an uphill battle. Ex moved in another feller bout 3 weeks after id left and then started refering to him as dad so now my daughter calls him dad (aswell as me) which is a massive pile of donkey shit and what makes it worse is he has no style or personallity at all! He still wears a fucking No Fear t-shirt and has a pair of oakleys from like 88. Anyways I took her back the other day and ex comes out screaming her head off bout something or other. I tend to agree with whatever she says cause things can get messy etc but managed to get a sly dis in here and there. So she is shouting at me in front of the children (she has 2, 1 with other guy) at the doorstep to the house like some J Kyle show out take. Right so my fiancee hears this and come to the door (she was waiting in the car). She says come on man lets go cause this is getting us no-where. Ex starts to have a bang at my missues. My missues says look i dont wanna fall out over this, stop shouting in front of the kids so we can discuss the matter. Ex is like you dont have kids so you cant say anything blah blah and upon that my fiancee litterally lays waste to her. The outcome is now i cant see my daughter. I ve tried to contact ex but she isnt answering txt, call or voice mail. Ive looked up mediation services and am going to make an appointment to see them but 1, I dont like confrontation with her an 2, im worried she wont even answer to them. I dont know what to do cause court costs atleast £3000 which i cant afford and tbh i dont want my daughter to have to go throw all that crap. So i left her a message saying - look ive found this out (mediation) but id rather us 2 just sort things out together. Still no answer. Its so frusrating. Anyway sorry for the rant but im feeling abit shitty about the whole situation and thought putting it out there may ease the burden.