shes how you call it, 'sectioned'? shes in a mental institution, so she hasnt been home in a long time. but i called her up and told her whos the boss of the jobs and she can fucking stay there until her body rots for all i care. check this out, she said shed get leave for saturday - sunday and come home and wed chill and talk and whatnot but i already made plans for sat-sun before making this call cos i knew shed cancel anyway and she did!! she fucking did, im laughing as i write this, girls are so fucking predictable. anyway i told her not to come at all. she will have to come and pack at some point. think i should get it started for her? look its tough alright, breaking up is never fun and this hurts but i cant be dependent on some fucking psycho. codependency is inevitable in a close relationship, i know that now. i hate codependency, its the death personality. to break it hurts even if its for your own good. this is a girl i been living with for four years so were fairly tight knit. the new years eve celebrations made her collapse at work and she got sectioned. i know its weird, and i dont believe a word of it. point is its none of my concern any more where she is or what she does. this happened the same time last year, but a month to the day earlier so she ruined christmas and newyears eve hardcore. this year she let the collapse and psychotic episodes and cutting herself slide until after the holidays, something i found very charitable. BUT still break up over the phone with long lecture on how much she sucks LAD. karl netherfields just call me mr. right.