so its all on the rocks at the moment n i can see it going that way of, 'i still want to be friends, i still care about you' blah blah... anyone else have experience in this? how was it for you? personally i find this quite hard.. i cant stand remaining friends with an x, then seeing them out an about with other men n all that.. especially for the first few months.. saying that.. i still am friends with a few.. hardly ever talk though. dunno how you can be with someone for so long n know everything about them one minute, then the next. they are a complete stranger. going from talking everyday, to not speaking for weeks, and struggling to string together a sentence.. discuss.