im having a house party tomorrow for my 21st and have been going on about it and looking forward to it for ages and have plenty of people comming up. There is an electro night in bradford called sinful sessions that plays really cheesy shity electro that i hate but i know the guy who runs it. Was just talking to him and he has offered me a slot playing the afterparty but it will mean not having the party and going to a night i will not enjoy but will get to dj at the after party. Im pretty sure he is only giving me the slot so i will bring a load of people down coz he knows a lot of people comming to my shindig. I know everyone going to my do will not want to go there but i am worried if i say no he will not consider me again. He also runs a weekly after party at vampire in bradford which i was originally going to be playing another time untill i mentioned i was having a party. I have yet to play a club and unsure on whether to take the oppurtunity. If i was to playing i would be playing a mix of dirty electro, fidget, dutch house, uk funky, which ever was going down the best. What would you do?