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Discussion in 'Waffle' started by Fes Rock, Jun 2, 2009.

  1. Fes Rock

    Fes Rock Nothing..........

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    broke up with my girl right on the 2 year mark....

    its complicated, but she said shes been seeing someone else.

    if its true or not i dunno, my instinct says its a lie, and she just trying to light a fire under my ass to try and make me change or whatever...

    any advice for moving on?
     
  2. Fazer

    Fazer wat

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    Fuck mang, thats bad news, sorry to hear that :(
    Moving on just comes with time in my opinion, you miss them less and less over time.
    (n)
     
  3. Nutek

    Nutek movement junglist

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    sorry to hear bro, is it final? i split with my bird a few days before our two years but it turned out we just needed a break so we're back on the scene/bed now!

    as for moving on i shall suggest you get on the beats, my music was the only thing that got me through the small while i wasn't with her
     
  4. Mr G

    Mr G Old Cunt From 19 Longtime

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    As Fazer said Fes, and if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be..........go out and get fucking mangled....thats what i'd do, think about things and what to do and what not after.
     
  5. groelle

    groelle Well-Known Member

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    not knowing your situation, id say find out what her intention was, why she acted this way and so on.

    apart from that - im sorry to hear. 2 years is a long time.. get yourself to not think about her. do something new, something you hadnt done before so there wouldnt be anything reminding you of her. or just go out, fuck as many sluts as possible and think she was the wrong one from the beginning.

    really its all about doing what you think is right. if you think you have to do something to get her back. do it. dont let someone tell you what to do as its your relationship! or do what i advised above and let also no one tell you what to do or not to do.

    fingers crossed that it will turn out well for you!
     
  6. safety

    safety double safety

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    hit the sauce, it helped me after a five year waste of time. also, spend as much time with your friends as you can. without friends we're just an island in a stream (i fucking love kenny rogers)
     
  7. Fazer

    Fazer wat

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    yeah thats true. always go out with your pal's. takes your mind off it loads.
     
  8. Riisu

    Riisu Not the Preacher Man

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    Yeah, become an alcoholic. Normally helps....
     
  9. groelle

    groelle Well-Known Member

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    or a drug addict. can help, too if you arent already :D
     
  10. phillips11

    phillips11 I've been naughty, I'm banned

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    I split up with my mrs last year, turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. sweet.
     
  11. phillips11

    phillips11 I've been naughty, I'm banned

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    It was good cuz it was mutual and i was going on holiday and went to Faliraki which was more win
     
  12. Fratanize

    Fratanize Keepin the jungle alive

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    Sorry fes. Dont try and force it to work. Let her do her thing. If she misses you she will let you know. Spend time with mates. Show her that you dont need her to keep your life in order, even if thats not entirely true. You dont want her to be with you cos she feels guilty. Its hard cos we dont know her or you really. Dont get pissed up too much tho mate. Alchole is a depressant and you will come off worse.
    Best of luck mate
     
  13. *SweetPea*

    *SweetPea* LADY VINYL

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    You know I'll lub you forever!!

    Go and get very drunk. that's the main thing to do first off, then move stuff that belongs to her, and reminds you lots of her far away.

    Speand lots of time with friends, and try and remember what you did before her - events and stuff.

    It won't be easy tho boyo, but I'll give you lots of virtual hugs to help :)
     
  14. souljah

    souljah liquid lover...

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    aw fes.

    best advice i could ever give would be that you have to try and have no contact whatsoever. it really helps to figure out whats going on.

    :grouphug:
     
  15. DJ NUERA

    DJ NUERA 5HEAD

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    Sorry to hear that bro, hope your ok.
    With my ex I deleted her number etc and just avoided her for as long as possible. All the advice here is good just go and get smashed spend as much time with your mates as possible and come to the UK for a bit (y)

    2 years is a long time man, its guna take a long time to move on and it aint easy but you'll get there.
     
  16. BoudiCat

    BoudiCat SERIAY.

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    All I can say is you don't get over someone by getting under someone else.
    It's better to spend time on your own, with your friends & doing things maybe you didn't do when you guys were together.
    If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Time is a great healer.
     
  17. Dan M

    Dan M hard gay northern bear

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    god i would love to be single for a while, just embrace it mate, itll be fun, you can do what you want when you want again or maybe you already did that before. either way just go to a mates or a club and get completely wasted for days to supress the shit feeling or do her best mate/sister always works. good luck tho dude
     
  18. $marty

    $marty Dexcell Staff Member

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    I say we start up a paypal fund and bring Fes over for a holiday to the UK.
     
  19. safety

    safety double safety

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    for the next ram
     
  20. DJ NUERA

    DJ NUERA 5HEAD

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    Id quite happily donate.