getting back with your ex

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  1. logikz

    logikz I Am Not The King Staff Member

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    getting back with the ex

    theres a reason were not together anymore. theres also a reason we got together in the first place. did you ever do this? is it a good idea?
     
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  2. Radius

    Radius Give me back my passport u slags

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    Such a hard question and so easy to give th wrong answer.....but remeber she melted ur head the other day, problem is when u have negative history it keep scoming back to haunt ya...but at the same time better what ya know ????? Sure taht is of no help whatsoever....:monkey:
    Ask urself why u want to get back with her..break it down 2 the basix; is it a bunk up u require ( this is not an offer) , or is it teh warmth of her company ( not so easily replaced, but still doable)...it can sometimes be hard accepting its over....but usually best not to torture each other further, like you said there was a reason for breaking up......
     
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  3. apples

    apples WINNER is back ;)

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    if you both want to be together then you both have to wipe the slate clean and start a new. no bringing up "but you did this" or whatever. if you can't do this then there is no point.
    maybe talk to her about why you split up in the first place and whether it will affect you being together now.

    but you do only live once and if you love her.......?
     
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    Dustek Finished the PhD

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    Re: getting back with the ex

    Done it once, do it again until the pain is too much. Make your mistakes and live with them. Just go with the flow.
     
  5. logikz

    logikz I Am Not The King Staff Member

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    those are things that need to be taken into account. i feel my head got more than alittle warped that time.
    not an easy question is it!!
     
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    Dustek Finished the PhD

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    Just try it. If it doesn't work out, get out. Just don't get her pregnant & don't buy a car or get a mortgage.
     
  7. apples

    apples WINNER is back ;)

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    yes yes

    personally i never go back to the past, unless they got mega rich of course...........:rolleyes:
     
  8. sdm

    sdm This is Dog Fort

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    How shallow! (y) :teeth:
     
  9. logikz

    logikz I Am Not The King Staff Member

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    i used to say the exact same thing, if its over its over, no time to dwell on things, onwards we march. this time its different though. for some reason. maybe i should just buy a new one.
     
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    apples WINNER is back ;)

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    it wouldnt be just the money that would get me back, they would have to be much more gorgeous, fitter and maybe taller...... i don't ask for much :shrug:



    :teeth:
     
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    apples WINNER is back ;)

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    i think you know what you wanna do, if i said to you, no sorry you can not get back with her what so ever, i bet you would go F you and jump back on her.

    so try and if it don't succeeeeed finish it and carry on as before. would you really lose anything?
     
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    Indi Tha Original ThreadKilla!

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    Don't bother. You broke up over something last time, its gonna happen again, regardless of how much you both have changed since then. Let the past be the past and find a nicer patch of grass to take a shit on (y)
     
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    soundgirl Queen of the Stupids

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    Re: getting back with the ex

    i'm in exactly the same situation as you, my friend. and it's damn confusing. we're just taking things easy and seeing how it goes. we're not seeing TOO much of each other as we both need our own space - something we never gave each other before.
    just go for it and see what happens. if it doesn't work out then shit, it ain't the end of the world. just move on.
     
  14. Radius

    Radius Give me back my passport u slags

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    NOW...did she buy you set of Technics , a new mixer, headphones etc when you had split up ???? Nah thought not.....:spliff:
     
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    Yeah I go back to ex's every now and again for some fun :)

    Thats the only reason one should ever do, remember why you broke up in the first place :p
     
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    thank you Doctor Love
     
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    $marty Dexcell Staff Member

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    Ex's can fuck with your head for sure. I been thinking bout my ex everyday for time, cos she manages to get in my head and fuck me about. i been trying to avoid her lately so these feelings don't get on top of me again, but its pretty fucking hard when she texts me evryday wondering what i am up to.
    TREAD CAREFULLY my pedigree chum
     
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    Indi Tha Original ThreadKilla!

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    Anytime mate, anytime :teeth:
     
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