See, a lot of you guys are older and wiser than me, and therefore im going to ask for advice in a life matter: Im pretty worried about my mate, He has always been a bit of a weed smoker, and though i'm not a fan of the drug, it's never been of much concern to me or our group of friends; I generally mind my own business and try to let my friends find Their own way in what they do. However, recently this mate friend has been taking cocaine, going off with other guys who we know but arent that close with, sniffing and generally just cruising around abusing their bodies. It started off as once in awhile, but now my mate sniffs everyday, and he does dumb things like stay out till seven am for no apparent reason taking drugs and cruising. He's drifted further apart from our group, and now it seems as if a few of my other mates may be starting to join him. Thing is, Like i said i try to let my friends be their own people, but When they are blowing their wages quicktime on drugs and getting in debt, and their parents ring up my mum telling her that they are worried (and they arent even aware of the drug use), I kinda get a little fearful for my friends. Have you guys got any advice as to how i can help my mate? I dont wanna insult him, or start criticising him, but all the thoughts i have towards his new found venture consist of insults and negatives... Is there any way to approach him, or make him see that he is messing things up. Cheers guys. Nuff respect.