Sorry to start a thread all about me. But I just wanted to know your thoughts on this matter. So, I called up a good friend who just split up with his girlfriend. He was pissed cos he just paid out 3k for a holiday for 2 in St. Lucia. I offered to accompany him instead. He replied if I would cover the plane ticket I was on. I replied I would let him suck my dick if he paid for the flight. He did not seem too impressed, so I offered to bend him over in the Jacuzzi. ( Maybe cos my wife was laughing so hard in the background he was not amused ? hmm) ...he said I was a dirty bitch trying for a comeback. I replied he would show him he was a dirty bitch in that Jacuzzi. He then said something about missing his girlfriend so much, and sounded like he was gonna cry. I said just think about my cock in your mouth ATM style. My wife is howling by now, which is kinda making me have to say worse. "what's ATM" he says...so I sing in my best mocking choir boy voice..." Arse to mouth"...he says I am insensitive to what's happening in his life. I thought some Blokish banter insisting he was a bum bandit would help ? SO do I lack emotional intelligence, and can you tell me more to the point finally , what the fuck is emotional intelligence ? How is it measured ?