getting back with your ex

[logikz]

theres a reason were not together anymore. theres also a reason we got together in the first place. did you ever do this? is it a good idea?

[Radius]

Such a hard question and so easy to give th wrong answer.....but remeber she melted ur head the other day, problem is when u have negative history it keep scoming back to haunt ya...but at the same time better what ya know ????? Sure taht is of no help whatsoever....
Ask urself why u want to get back with her..break it down 2 the basix; is it a bunk up u require ( this is not an offer) , or is it teh warmth of her company ( not so easily replaced, but still doable)...it can sometimes be hard accepting its over....but usually best not to torture each other further, like you said there was a reason for breaking up......

[apples]

if you both want to be together then you both have to wipe the slate clean and start a new. no bringing up "but you did this" or whatever. if you can't do this then there is no point.
maybe talk to her about why you split up in the first place and whether it will affect you being together now.

but you do only live once and if you love her.......?

[Dustek]

theres a reason were not together anymore. theres also a reason we got together in the first place. did you ever do this? is it a good idea?

Done it once, do it again until the pain is too much. Make your mistakes and live with them. Just go with the flow.

[logikz]

those are things that need to be taken into account. i feel my head got more than alittle warped that time.
not an easy question is it!!

[Dustek]

those are things that need to be taken into account. i feel my head got more than alittle warped that time.
not an easy question is it!!

Just try it. If it doesn't work out, get out. Just don't get her pregnant & don't buy a car or get a mortgage.

[apples]

Just try it. If it doesn't work out, get out. Just don't get her pregnant & don't buy a car or get a mortgage.

yes yes

personally i never go back to the past, unless they got mega rich of course...........

[sdm]

unless they got mega rich of course...........

How shallow!

[logikz]

i used to say the exact same thing, if its over its over, no time to dwell on things, onwards we march. this time its different though. for some reason. maybe i should just buy a new one.

[apples]

How shallow!

it wouldnt be just the money that would get me back, they would have to be much more gorgeous, fitter and maybe taller...... i don't ask for much

[apples]

i used to say the exact same thing, if its over its over, no time to dwell on things, onwards we march. this time its different though. for some reason. maybe i should just buy a new one.

i think you know what you wanna do, if i said to you, no sorry you can not get back with her what so ever, i bet you would go F you and jump back on her.

so try and if it don't succeeeeed finish it and carry on as before. would you really lose anything?

[Indi]

Don't bother. You broke up over something last time, its gonna happen again, regardless of how much you both have changed since then. Let the past be the past and find a nicer patch of grass to take a shit on

[soundgirl]

theres a reason were not together anymore. theres also a reason we got together in the first place. did you ever do this? is it a good idea?

i'm in exactly the same situation as you, my friend. and it's damn confusing. we're just taking things easy and seeing how it goes. we're not seeing TOO much of each other as we both need our own space - something we never gave each other before.
just go for it and see what happens. if it doesn't work out then shit, it ain't the end of the world. just move on.

[Radius]

NOW...did she buy you set of Technics , a new mixer, headphones etc when you had split up ???? Nah thought not.....

[mISHKA]

Yeah I go back to ex's every now and again for some fun

Thats the only reason one should ever do, remember why you broke up in the first place :P