turn them down...right down
compression will generally bring tails out even more, so you may be over doing it; but also ppl tend to have rolls way to loud, turn them down to -inf, and bring them back into the mix very very slowly, until they just sit right in the mix, if you find they start to pop out of the mix to much, turn them down a bit and start to EQ them so they don't interfere with your other more important sounds