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jay walker
04-02-2009, 12:00
Was with the missus (or Ex now) for over 3 great years, its all gone sour and we both want different things. its killing me if im honest an feel empty inside.
Some twat says times a great healer, what can y'all suggest works best?
or just spend time with your mates, I find that takes my mind of everything.
Sammy_Dodger
04-02-2009, 12:09
The best way to get over someone...
...is to get under someone else ;)
expression, outlet ..
dont drink or feel sorry for yourself , write a killer tune.. express yourself in the tune . do what beethoven did, but with a phat dnb tune , basically , just channel all your strong feelings itno a good few hours production and see what comes out of it .. times like this are when some of the best music in the world has been made/written
Spending time with mates, getting wrecked is the best healer.
music , full of emotion and expression , so work with it in your favour, if your feeling the emotion, express .. you may be surprised.
i always recommend a rebound girl and a long bender of such magnitude words could barely begin to describe it, i am forced to make up new words for the human language is out of range when it comes to the cosmic proportions of what i suggest,
but let me get back to you with the word when i know more
you realize if the authorities knew what i get up to on a damn near daily basis id be put in jail for a very long time indeed.
yeh , and like others have said , mates, but getting wreked is ok for a night and puklling another bird , but in the morning , when your hungover and alone, and the birds gone home .. you'll ultimately feel abit shit and fucked up again.. but it is a sad fact .. time is the best healer , its always gunna be strange going from a big relationship to a abit of a void
^^ So you do the same the next night, and the night after untill one of them is there in the morning for you.
same shit different bitch every night until you realize you dont even remember what you were trying to forget let alone what she looked like.
keep a picture handy for this reason
should you ever feel the need to remind yourself i mean.
Sorry to hear about that Jay. My best advice would be to go out with a load of your mates and get absolutely smashed, and as others have said, go find a rebound girl for a bit of fun. If you're not up for that, then just go out with your friends and get smashed!
gettin drunk for about 9 or so months should do it.
spiderfran286
04-02-2009, 12:49
i met a girl id never thought id be able to get over last year, we had a good time together, i loved her, she told me she loved me, it went sour. fuck her!
time is defo the best healer, just get on with life and tell yourself its her loss
barbarella
04-02-2009, 12:52
The best way to get over someone...
...is to get under someone else ;)
TRUE!
works all the time!
barbarella
04-02-2009, 12:55
Was with the missus (or Ex now) for over 3 great years, its all gone sour and we both want different things. its killing me if im honest an feel empty inside.
Some twat says times a great healer, what can y'all suggest works best?
U re going to ram arent u:wave:
or just spend time with your mates, I find that takes my mind of everything.
this.. and beer
Dj Dirty Pimp
04-02-2009, 12:59
i feel for ya man...
have a day to ur self, sit on the xbox or what ever u got. get mad, get upset.
then next day go out with mates. go on the pull n prove u still got it!
or ifu dont wana go on the pull(understandable). just have a laugh with ur mates (who u have probably neglected slighty due to having a missus), n get smashed. Make sure theyre good mates who will look after u n make sure u dont start fights or break her door in at 4am lol
U re going to ram arent u:wave:
There ya go Jay!
http://content.ytmnd.com/content/c/1/c/c1c4bb67a25f0d031d8f2946a10a72ce.jpg
jay walker
04-02-2009, 13:01
U re going to ram arent u:wave:
couldnt get a bastard ticket in the end, my crew said 'oh yeah tickets are sorted, dont worry' - so i didnt worry, until i saw it was sold out everywhere! fack!!!!!!
hyperd4eva
04-02-2009, 13:04
mate it will all seem like a loong time ago when u meet someone else. then you will probably go through the same thing again! just stay true to yaself bruv!
barbarella
04-02-2009, 13:06
wat u need is a good:nutkick:
:teeth:
JunglelisticG
04-02-2009, 13:29
Sorry to hear about that JW! :(
slimbo011
04-02-2009, 14:37
time and weed
serious
robhicks1
04-02-2009, 14:43
As has been said before.
Music/Drink/Drugs/Mates and maybe a rebound girl will sort it.
Also remember that you can do better:twisted:
spiderfran gives pretty good "getting over a relationship" head.
Ch4ndler
04-02-2009, 14:51
Drugs.
djwhitehaze
04-02-2009, 14:55
everyone already stated the answer for ya bro, time/drink/pals/weed/music/slags..... but all at the same time!!!
Spend as little time on your own as possible man, cos then its just you and your mind and it digs at you, i know what its like!
Also get hammered!
Sorry to hear that btw mate, hope your all good.
Ch4ndler
04-02-2009, 15:59
What you need, is to kill the bitch. Either that or pay someone with aids/hiv/herpies/sti's to date rape her.
Problem solved.
Unless you broke up on good terms. If you did, plan b would be invest in a chastity belt, attach it to her when shes sleeping and swallow the key.
hyperd4eva
04-02-2009, 16:01
another way to do it is hire a tai bride! bet shed be more help to you aswell. and no grief cause u cant understand them.. al u need to know is.. sucky now, or clothes clean,
or you could try it on with her mum
EvezDroppin
04-02-2009, 17:06
plenty more shit in the sewer if u ask me!
no offence ladies haha
Twisted Murderer
04-02-2009, 17:09
Belgian beer!
sam the dnb man
04-02-2009, 17:16
Refer to plan B...But the other way round.
While she's out recording tracks with chase and status you goto her house, trash it, have a party and kill her cat.
Shag her nextdoor neighbour aswell if shes hot.
Time is right to fix thinks, it hurts, and I think most people have had their heart broken.
You need harmless flirtation to take your mind off things, i'm not saying shagging other girls, but go out and have fun with your mates. Things will get better in time.
Also concentrate on her bad points (if any), again that helps a bit.
But sorry to hear that man... and I hope thats a bit of helpfull advice :)
I just broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago, so i know what your going through mate. It was horrible at first, because it was me who ended it, but it wasnt my fault we finished, if you understand; she started being cold towards me, like didnt seem interested and was less affectionate than she was before. She started beeing really snappy, and at times just spitefull, and when i asked her about it shed say she was stressed. But i put up with it for ages, then i thought fuck it, ive had enough so i ended it. Thing is, i think thats what she wanted anyway, and i genuinely loved this girl and tried my best to make it work. Sometimes it just wont. Now she keeps putting some other dude in her facebook status and its obvious shes knobbing this guy, and it hurts knowing she can just move on so quickly, while i feel down and empty. I personally think she was just cheating on me, and now can do it in the open.
Anyway, like other people said, being alone is a killer, because you have only you and your thoughts to deal with; i think about this chick, and get a horrible feeling in my stomach. Like it hurts and shit. so get some company man, be it female or your buds. Also, try and stay busy- i know a lot of people have reccomended getting wasted, but that only work sin the short term. For me, i focus more on my work, and other things productive in order to keep my mind off it.
Also, dont get in to the game of still talking to her; you need closure, and if you still speak to her it will just be worse in my opinion. Cut her out of your life completely-- its hard as fuck, but it works and soon enough, you will forget all about her and be back to yourself again :)
Controller
04-02-2009, 18:53
Spend some time with your mates.
You'l appreciate em more cos you won't have to 'get home for the missus' etc
Get out & embrace/enjoy being single again. Do some travelling, get a new hobbies. Save some money :teeth:
Think of it as a good thing that fates thrown your way for whatever reason.
RaggaDred
04-02-2009, 18:54
same thing happened to me recently
best way to get over it is get pissed and slam as many 16 year olds as u can
same thing happened to me recently
best way to get over it is get pissed and slam as many 16 year olds as u can
I better duck and take cover
I better duck and take cover]
nah man that will only make it easier
DJ NUERA
04-02-2009, 19:33
Sorry to hear that bro, Feel for you.
Same happened to me a while back, Just (as everyone has said) spend time with your mates, listen to lots of DNB, get smashed and just take life as it comes, dont worry about the past or the future. Just live how you want and have fun in everything you do.
You'll get over it eventually.
Easier for me tho coz im cracking onto my ex's sister, and I work with her mum ;)
:borat:
Gotta face up to it and resume.
If you get wasted you´ll probably break your friends balls about it:wink:
deadaelus
04-02-2009, 19:55
Spending time with mates, getting wrecked is the best healer.
FTW,
This is it man. Get out to see friends you havent seen in a while. And make sure to get loser drunk (Definition: the level of drunk that attracts concern from onlookers. Your friends may even go so far as to call you a taxi and give the man your address and enough money to get you home safe.)
sam the dnb man
04-02-2009, 20:00
thats true what mansell said and it does help.
focus on her bad points.
get rid of anything that reminds you of her
pretty much remove her from your life.
makes it easier to move on.
oh yeh and a rebound girl should take care of the rest.
perspective
04-02-2009, 20:45
Sorry to hear that fella... Sucks now but it will get better, a lot better than it would if you both wanted different things but stuck together another 8 years.
Time *is* a great healer, but friends/family help a lot too. Just concentrate on the good things going on in your life, have a laugh with the lads and don't let it get you down.
Chin up mate.
jay walker
04-02-2009, 20:49
cheers people, good words there, defo gonna do the 'get fucked out of my head' idea very soon! :mrgreen:
thats true what mansell said and it does help.
focus on her bad points.
:word: that one really did help me.
Anyway man... we're all here for ya :) :thumbsup:
you have to forget to forgive
BoudiCat
04-02-2009, 21:58
Mates & spending time on your own, so you know yourself without her if that makes sense?
None of this rebound crap, it's not right.
Sorry to hear man.
If i were you i'd sort out a bag of green and go out and party any day of the week. All about the no commitments man, you miss alot of shit being single but you gotta have time to yourself too where you can do your shit.
You dont learn anything else you have ups and downs.
djrowney
05-02-2009, 01:33
i split with my mrs of 8 months a month ago and its a killa
movin on is hard...best thing to do is be around your mates and not be on your own too much, gets you down bigtime
jumping late on this, but all i can say is channel your emotions into something creative. make some angry dnb man, cant go wrong with that (Y)
expression, outlet ..
dont drink or feel sorry for yourself , write a killer tune.. express yourself in the tune . do what beethoven did, but with a phat dnb tune , basically , just channel all your strong feelings itno a good few hours production and see what comes out of it .. times like this are when some of the best music in the world has been made/written
:word:
ETHIX has got it with the make a tune idea!!
Bigup jay walker!
RaggaDred
05-02-2009, 13:32
the best thing is when you split with a girl and then her life turns to shit soon after
ie. loses her job, gets cheated on by her new bf, etc
raggadred, you hit girls? nice to meet a fellow brother in arms. i mauled my girlfriend last friday, beat her furiously, took four guys to pull me offa her. i certainly do suffer the consequences right now, i doubt itll ever go away
Just go out and do everything you couldnt do while you were with her...
and put it about a bit na'mean.
MARLZTAH
05-02-2009, 19:12
you need to see it as a good thing..... if your relationship was going nowhere but downhill, being with her would have just wasted time looking for someone who is right for you
mansell is right about thinking about her bad points..... as much as you may reminisce about good times, remember why you broke up
the world is your oyster now, go and do all things that you never got round too doing because of your relationship...... going out with your mates, meeting girls, spending time writing tunes
i wish you all the best mate.... now go and get yourself an upgrade ;)
djrowney
05-02-2009, 19:15
lol my ex was prettiest i've been with, knew everything was too good to be true though...the prettiest ones always end up being nobheads in my experience
Adopt the attitude of "I dont give a fuck" even if you do.....say it in your head everytime you think about it, worked for me dude.....it was the only thing i could think to do after getting smashed every weekend.
Obviously the rebound girl is good, but you wouldnt rebound with a girl you dont like? whats the point in pulling a pig for the sake of it!?.....i always end up having relationships with the rebound girls haha.
Getting your married mates who have kids and not been clubing for ages to come out every weekend helps too, defo brings the good times back into play and make you realize your mates are always there.....a woman in many cases will end up not being there untill you find the right one ( which i guess you thought the last one was? :) )
"I dont give a fuck"....SAY IT.......SAY IT LOUD!!!
Oh and one more thing......try not to get into situations where you have time to think too deeply, i remember when i split ages ago from a girl id been with for 3 years, my car stegsy got knicked and i had to drive 2 hours a day with no tunes man.......did my nut in thinking about shit and listening to the car engine and nout else!!
You'll be ok man.......i always think about all the girls out there that you have never met in all the towns and in all the cities.....there will be another one mate, and she will be better than the last...trust!
now go and get yourself an upgrade ;)
THIS :mrgreen:
EvezDroppin
05-02-2009, 22:20
good advice snipaz!
its true ur mates are always there and girls will come and go..... always someone better out there and someone who'll treat u aswell as u treat them.
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